Spirit of Rejection?

We have all felt rejection in some form in our lives. Whether it be from a friend, relative, or co-worker, it never feels good. Let it be a goal in our lives to be sure that others do not feel rejected by us! Often we don't even realize that we are inflicting others with the spirit of rejection.

Rejection can begin in the womb. Maybe you, or someone you know, is facing an unwanted pregnancy. We should remember that EVERY life is a gift from God, no matter what the circumstances are here on earth that led to this life. God sends all babies to earth for a purpose and we should always remember that. So, always rejoice in the miracle of a baby. The Bible says, "before I formed you in the womb, I knew you." God creates life BEFORE he allows us the awesome opportunity to nurture it here on earth. If we focus on the circumstances, instead of the blessing, by believing that a baby is not wanted, then we are allowing satan to bring a spirit of rejection to that child that could possibly affect him or her for life.

Another way we can bind this spirit of rejection is by welcoming everyone into your circle of friends instead of making them feel like you belong to a "clique" that they are not welcome in. When a new person comes to church or school, be sure to talk to them and make them feel comfortable. Show them around and get to know the person...just like you would want them to do if you were the new one! It's so difficult to go to a new school or church, especially when you don't know anyone. And, if you already suffer from fear of rejection (most of us do!!) it's almost impossible to overcome if you are rejected by that group of girls or guys that all hang together, cutting up and having fun. And, remember that just because someone seems "different" than you, we are all created by the same God and in HIS image.

Please let us know if you need help in this area. There are so many small things we can do to make sure everyone feels welcome. May we all strive to be more like Jesus! He was drawn to the "different" people of this world and desired to minister the love of His Father to them!